Ever wonder what being sugar baby would be like? A few months ago I was searching for a sugar daddy on one of the many free websites available for sugar babies. I met an older gentleman looking for a sugar baby on the website. Since this was my first time being involved in this type of transaction I had many questions to ask. I have the inside scoop from a sugar daddy on what it is to be a sugar baby and all the interactions that are required.
A sugar baby/ sugar daddy relationship is one based on the exchange of needs between the two partners involved. Theres different kinds of phases and relationship types depending on the sugar daddy’s needs and wants. Whether you can fulfill those needs determines the payment you receive. During my interrogation I discovered that I would not be getting any cash from my sugar daddy unless we have intercourse. Not only that, but that if I want more than the minimum which is $100, we would have to be “hanging out” for more than three hours. My sugar daddy explained to me that “no guy will pay without intercourse” but that we can take it slow getting to know each other. It seemed to me that he wanted the girlfriend experience with the secrecy of the CIA.
During the time we were getting to know each other, I asked him to buy lunch online because I was broke. It turns out that is out of the question because it would appear of the bank statement which raises suspicion for his wife. This was when I found out my sugar daddy was married. I struggled with this for long time before making my decision. One of the most complex ethical questions I have ever asked myself. Am I willing to sleep with a married man for money? If he wasn’t married I would not have been asking myself this question or doubting my decision to be a sugar baby. Netherless he is married and I had a decision to make. I asked myself the following question; how would you feel if your husband cheated on you with his sugar baby? This question had a straight forward answer, I would be mortified and probably set fire to the house while him and his mistress have sex. With that I knew the answer to my first question; I am not willing to have sex with a married man for money. I canceled our sugar baby/daddy relationship, but the temptation was there and it was hard to make the decision because of where I was financially at the time.
I did not want to give up on finding a sugar daddy and I kept searching online for one that was single. My luck is extremely sucky because all of the potential sugar daddies I found were married. This was such a disappoint at the time because I was single and needed the financial help. It would of been the best of both worlds if I found the right candidate. Eventually I gave up my search and decided to find other ways to resolve my financial crisis. Sugar daddy relationships was not something easily found or at least the kind I wanted.
Sugar daddy relationships are not for everyone because of all the ethical situations that you will be faced but if you can handle it, more power to you. Here are my recommendations for future sugar babies; find a single sugar daddy, establish any limits on your relationship, and establish payments before involving yourself in any sexual activity. Make sure you are always in control in the situation and most importantly be safe.
XOXOX,
Astro~
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